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khaosworks ([personal profile] khaosworks) wrote2005-11-01 01:26 am
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Stolen from filkerdave

I turned on anonymous posting, and turned off IP Address Logging. I want you to post anything that you want.

Anything.

A story, a secret, a confession, a fear, a love - anything. Be sure to post anonymously and honestly. Post twice if you'd like.

Then, if you want: put this in your LJ to see what your friends (and perhaps others who you don't even realize read your LJ) have to say.

(Anonymous) 2005-10-31 07:04 pm (UTC)(link)
I have for some time suspected that a person I have long loved dearly has been taking advantage of me, spinning ever more elaborate webs of lies and deceits. I have no concrete proof, but much circumstantial evidence that appears to support my suspicions.

If I confront the person in question and I am wrong, it will hurt said person terribly, and permanently damage the relationship. If I say nothing and my suspicions are later confirmed, I am risking my own heart and, to a fair extent, my hard-won financial health.

What to do?

[identity profile] khaosworks.livejournal.com 2005-11-01 09:51 am (UTC)(link)
I'm sorry to hear this, and I'm not really sure what to say. However, if the evidence is enough to make someone else suspicious, it might be enough that the person will understand why the suspicions are there. On the other hand, this is not necessarily a rational situation.

It's tough. But falling in love means risk, and I have to keep telling myself that people do recover from heartbreak, because if I don't believe that, then I might as well slit my wrists. So perhaps in the end, you have to decide what would be more satisfying to you - living in uncertainty and dismissing those fears, or knowing, one way or the other, but risk losing it. A big hug is about all I can offer, either way.